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Freeing my heart from its cage

For years I lived with a cage around my heart. It took determination and an inner knowing that I wanted more for my life that led me to connect with and free my heart.

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5 ways to Release Resentment

Resentment is my go-to form of anger. But where does it come from, and more importantly, how can we release it?

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How to work with your inner child

I was on The Adult Chair Podcast with Michelle Chalfant sharing my experience of doing inner child work. Tune in to hear my story!

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The lies I used to tell

I had a huge fear of being “found out” or called stupid or ignorant that I covered up by telling little white lies - and noticing I was doing that was a huge revelation.

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An unexpected way to free yourself from the busyness trap

In our society where productivity is rewarded and getting things done equals purpose, being busy can be a badge of honor. If we aren’t true to ourselves about it, some of us may use busyness as a distraction to keep from slowing down and living with a greater sense of ease.

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CanvasRebel feature: Meet Rebecca Fellenbaum

I was recently interviewed by the wonderful editors at CanvasRebel. In addition to asking me about my coaching journey, they asked me to weigh in about how I would (hypothetically) change the educational system.

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Four ways to find the contentment you deserve

However busy or stressful your life may feel day-to-day, you deserve to find contentment in things big and small. Contentment is beautiful because it is a hum of joy and appreciation from within, not from the external world.

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Why your triggers are a gift

What if, in addition to those tools to manage the moment, you also looked at your triggers as a gift? Read this article written by Rebecca Fellenbaum for the May 2024 issue of Today’s Family magazine.

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My ego was trying to protect me (so I thanked it)

In second grade I turned to the boy who sat behind me in class and asked him if off was spelled with one f or two. He erupted into laughter and teased me for being stupid. My innocent 7-year-old self immediately spiraled into shame.

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Meeting the Gremlin Inside of Me

In the fall of 2020, I met the failure gremlin inside of me. Instead of pushing the feelings away, I turned towards it. What happened next surprised me.

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Living Life in the Present Moment

To live as our healthy, conscious adult selves, we must live in the present moment. This is a choice we can make over and over again.

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Am I doing this right? Meditation 101

The other day a friend asked me if I could offer one piece of advice for someone who wants to make positive changes in their life. Without hesitation, I said meditate.

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